At the start of my career, I had a boss that gave me the following advice:
“Think of everyone as your client and you want their repeat business. So it would be in your best interest to make sure they are satisfied with your work” – My former boss [paraphased]
From that moment forward, I shifted my interactions with colleagues. I became as helpful as I could in every situation. I went above and beyond for everyone around me. When I was asked to do something, I thought of the main intentions behind the request and tried to accomplish that as well. These people were my clients and I wanted all my clients to have a positive experience. As I began to grow into my career I saw this mindset propel me forward.
Now as I transition into leadership, I notice this advice has its limitations. Namely, the number of “clients” grows to unmanageable levels. Having to manage, up, down, and laterally with colleagues, bosses, and junior associates, I can’t productively fulfill every incoming request. I can no longer think five steps ahead for every “customer”. While this is actually a good problem to have because it means my “business” is growing, I need to adapt my practices to grow as well. This growth equates to a paradigm shift from servicing clients to becoming a client and expecting good services from others.
I can no longer be at all places at all times. In the name of delegation and the spirit of the team, I have to rely on others to help complete tasks that moves the team forward.
This shift also comes with insights on how to be a “good client”, how to ensure those looking to give you good service have the tools and information necessary to do so. I begin by being as detailed as possible about what it is I’m looking for, the problem I want to solve, or the goal I want to reach. I follow this information with suggesting a path forward while being open to other solutions. Lastly, and probably most importantly, I relinquish control of doing it all.
The transition and growth to leadership come with a myriad of challenges, but as the old African saying goes, “faster alone, further together.” I know the key to excelling at the next level is accepting this new reality that everyone works for me


Great insight Rey! Thanks for sharing.
Thanks and you’re welcomed!
Love this and your perspective from a employee and leadership point of view! Very insightful 🤗
Great! I’m glad you found value in it.